Relationships in college are not an accurate assessment of a sustainable relationship in the real world. The dynamics that got you together are based on one common theme; both people have a common purpose which is graduation and a common goal… GETTING A DAMN JOB!
Now here comes graduation. Both parties are faced with having to decide what is best for their career by going where ever the best opportunity is. This is where the division of the sexes usually starts to take shape.
Men are naturally more intellectual with their feelings and can think with their minds to decipher what decision makes the most financial sense. Women however, often think with their hearts and cloud their vision for the future with thoughts of family and children with this college mate.
Black Young and Gifted
Black man is ready to take over the world. He has made it! No kids, no record, college education and a good paying job. What female wouldn’t want him? I dub this man the BLACK UNICORN.
Black woman is ready to face the world. She wants a family, she has good job, and she wants a suitable mate that is on her level. But there is one problem! Most black men aren’t on her level, and those that are aren’t ready to settle down. I will call this woman the BLACK WIDOW.
To Be Continued…